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Saturday, March 29, 2008

Switching Time


Insurance challenges was the topic of my talk in Pleasanton, California at a Herndon Pharmacy sponsored event Saturday evening. We had a great turn out with about 50+ patients and parents attending. We all enjoyed a delicious dinner at the Pleasanton Hilton, followed by my presentation on "The Current Storm." The hour-long presentation covers what's happening with hemophilia reimbursement, why it's happening, how it all got started, and what families shoudl do to protect their insurance and choice. California is facing two major challenges: sudden switching of homecare companies by insurance companies, and a 10% reduction across the board on reimbursement by MediCal. Both measures hurt factor providers (340Bs and homecare) and parents are not very happy with the home care switching. For many parents, they don't even know what questions to ask. Insurance is complex, ever changing... and necessary.

It was really great to meet some new parents like Christina and Colleen, patients like Art and Stanley, and families I've known for a long time, like Vicky and Burt, and Betty. All the attendees really enjoyed meeting each other: everyone knew somebody and it was like a big reunion. You could see the comraderie and joy everyone was feeling. Before everyone left we all sang happy birthday to Mark Helm, president of Herndon, who just had his 50th birthday.

Thanks to Zuiho Taniguchi of Herndon Pharmacy for inviting me and handling all the logistics, and to Mark Helm, for sponsoring this enjoyable event. And please see www.herndonpharmacy.com for more information on Herndon Pharmacy, a contributor of factor to Project SHARE for patients in the developing world, and provider of hemophilia services in the US.

(Photos: 1) Colleen, Laurie, Christina 2) Laurie, Beth, Aban, Leslie 3) With Zuiho and Mark, of Herndon Pharmacy)



Book I Just Read: Enough About You, Let's Talk About Me: How to Recognize and Manage the Narcissists in Your Life
Les Carter

We all know people who love to talk about themselves. And we all know bores. But these are not necessarily people with bona fide narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). Carter explains very simply and easily what sets these people apart from people who just love talking about themselves. People with NPD can make your life miserable especially if you are married to them, have one as a sibling or parent, or as a boss. They lack the ability to be empathic and are notoriously difficult if not impossible to get into therapy or even get to see your side of a situation. Being with them is positively exhausting and narcissists are great at making you feel guilty and responsible for all that is wrong in a relationship. Carter offers excellent scenarios and great tips for dealing with those with NPD. Carter has a fundamentalist Christian background, and I did not like or agree with his view of children, despite that he is a popular author and therapist, and you may not agree with his linking original sin to this disorder. I also found the book very light, mostly anecdotal, with dialogues from his sessions with patients. This is a good book if you are new to psychology or narcissism. Two out of four stars.

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Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Parents Sue Over Birth of Child With Hemophilia

The newswires are alive with this story: An Australian couple are suing their doctor because their baby was born with hemophilia. The mother knew she was a carrier. She knew in-vitro fertilization could not guarantee a daughter... and the result is a gorgeous baby named Jess who apparently has caused such emotional damage that the parents want financial retribution. Now age three, Jess is at the heart of what could be the first of a kind lawsuit.

"We love our little boy, but we are very sorry he has to go through so much in his life," the couple told The Sunday Telegraph (Australia)."We tried everything to avoid this situation, and now our boy has to go through all the pain and treatment in order to survive. We now face the fact that Jess will require treatment for the rest of his life."

Part of me wants to shriek get real, grow up, toughen up, face the real world. Suffer? After reading about what inhibitor patients endure, it's unlikely Jess will suffer much. After visiting so many developing countries where NO treatment exists, Jess is living a dream come true. Good family, great health care system, plentiful medicine, no threat of viruses... from where I stand they are very lucky people... yet still they are seeking retribution.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,340737,00.html

"Paul and Fiona (who do not want to reveal their surname) are claiming damages for the shock and nervous anxiety caused by the unexpected nature of the birth." Get in line... thousands of families have dealt with it--with no family history, no warning whatsoever. Their claim seems to negate all the emotional suffering the rest of us go through--and eventually get over.

I was speaking to another mom today about this case, which has everyone buzzing. She thinks the parents are just not informed about hemophilia today (the mother's brother had hemophilia and was crippled). But I wondered, are they not aware or too aware? Are the parents profiting from something we all learned to accept, and they under took this risk willingly? They claim no one told them Fiona was carrying a boy, despite ultrasounds (and she didn't ask?); had she known she would have aborted. Are they truly in agony, three years later? Are they just not aware of how good life can be with hemophilia in developed countries? Or are they looking to make a killing from the physician's insurance, which also drives up health care costs for everyone?

But wait. In speaking with this mom tonight, I realized we are only skimming the surface. Snap judgments based on media reports are dangerous: what is the media not telling us? And despite what they print and even what the parents tell them, perhaps there is a bigger, more important plan here. Perhaps the situation wasn't handled well medically. After all, they were assured at some point that what was selected and implanted was a female embryo. They must have paid good money for this procedure. Throughout her pregnancy, if she is correct, no one told the mother she was carrying a boy (hard to imagine no one thought to ask!! and where were the ultrasound pics?). And if the baby was a boy and the doctor knew, could the doctor have put the baby at risk of a head bleed by having a natural birth (the article did not say if the baby was born naturally or by C-Section)? If all this is true, maybe there was true medical negligence and what is being sought is not so much emotional damage (obviously they are not so damaged they cannot be good parents to Jess) but a punitive measure against the medical facility that failed them in so many ways. In this manner, the lawyer has to follow whatever strategy works to get that justice.

Tough case to judge. I hope the parents at heart are grateful for Jess. Knowing how fiercely almost all parents of children with hemophilia I have met love and protect their children, it is painful to read about the burdens they say this child is causing them --even if it is only said for the benefit of the courts to seek justice for all. It will be interesting to hear more of the facts come out and hear from the hemophilia families in Australia comment on this case. Thoughts, anyone?

Book I Just Read
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. I generally like Coelho who has a lovely, simple style of writing but usually manages to capture fundamental themes on life and the human character. Here, Santiago, a shepherd, leaves his life behind to follow his destiny after a dream about searching for a treasure at the Egyptian pyramids. He meets assorted people along the way who help him rethink his journey and ultimately his destiny. This book is a quick read, enjoyable, easy to understand. I don't think it is Coelhos's best by a long shot. It's a bit too simple, though I enjoyed it because it was about traveling, far way places and above all following your destiny. I thought the ending was a disappointment--too much like a neat Hollywood ending. The book has met with mixed reviews. If you are spiritual, seeking or just like light tales with thought-provoking questions, you may enjoy this. Two out of four stars.

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At 6:20 PM, OpenID blood4 said...

In practice I have seen so many kind of scales of social and family values!!Like you very well explained it is a complex situation and we don't have all the details BUT
I can't see anything wrong in that case that justifies such exposure, (midia, critics, etc)fot their child and family.
the problem is that people in developed countries think that Science, technology can avoid surprises, mistakes....that they can CONTROL everything! and this is the striking news for these parents of a modern country....

I hope the child is safe, emotionally I mean, in the years to come..there is (we cannot deny) I rejection of this child because of his condition...if they put it in the way that they 'll have to ENDURE things as parents and need money for that.we all have to endure things and I have heard a lot of parents talking about problems with their families and children like in a family which doesn't have hemophilia.

I could debate hours...
I read Brida of Coelho..beautiful: it is about a young woman initiation in love, life...
hugs,
frederica

 
At 1:31 PM, Blogger Patrick Brogan said...

This story is a few days old and it's taken a while for me to react because the emotions keep changing. Disbelief, anger, sorrow. The immediate response was here is another example of the notion so pervasive today that life should be painless and free of sorrow and disappointment and if life is otherwise then it’s someone else’s fault and they should pay.

Life is. It’s up and down, in and out, good, bad, sad, boring, exciting and everything else. It is both joyful and painful. It never goes in a straight line and no matter how well you plan and prepare the unexpected will happen. For good or otherwise. There are no guarantees.

We who have children with bleeding disorders know this all too well. Our dreams, hopes and aspirations for our perfect children were shaken to the core with the diagnosis of hemophilia or von Willebrand’s. For most of us; time, education and the support of others in the bleeding disorders community was all that was needed for those previously crumbled dreams to be rebuilt. Rebuilt and perhaps standing stronger having been tempered by the lesson that fate is fickle and dreams need not be discarded but rather reshaped and refocused.

It’s a lesson that this couple in Australia has obviously not learned or are unwilling to learn. Opting rather to wallow in victimhood and self-pity (or even more disgraceful – playing the victim card for purely monetary motives).

Laurie Kelley is right to point out that our only knowledge of the case, its facts and the litigants comes from these stories. The Melbourne Sunday Herald Sun had, I believe, the full original story. And from it I’m willing to make some inferences.

I’m no lawyer but this couple doesn't appear to be suing for ‘breach of contract’. Meaning: they were not given a 100% guarantee of having a girl. This is supported in the Herald Sun story:


"They [Lawyers for Melbourne IVF] claim the couple was given and signed an IVF consent form and a embryo biopsy consent form which stated: "If a pregnancy is achieved from biopsied embryos, we understand that further diagnostic tests are recommended to confirm the early embryo diagnosis."

"The plaintiffs knew . . . that undergoing IVF and PGD did not guarantee a female fetus if a pregnancy were to occur and could result in the sort of injury, loss and damage about which the plaintiffs complain," court documents say.

"The plaintiffs agreed to undergo IVF and PGD with the full appreciation of the nature and extent of the risks involved."



And is it possible that tests and ultrasounds were inconclusive as to the gender of the baby? Sure. How many stories have we heard of people expecting a baby of one sex because of an ultrasound only to be blessed with a child of the opposite sex? Also, given the nature of the IVF selection in this case the baby’s sex was perhaps taken for granted, by everyone.

It’s a sad case on so many levels.


“And they are claiming money to cover medical expenses, because Jess will need treatment and care for life.”

Did they count on psychiatric help after Jess starts wondering why “Mum and Dad didn’t want a boy like me. So much they considered killing me before I was born.”


“The couple say that, had they known [the baby was a boy], they would have considered terminating the pregnancy.”

Of course I find the above quote entirely repugnant. It recalls an excerpt I read from Practical Ethics a book by Pete Singer, a so-called bioethicist from Princeton University.


“When the death of a disabled infant will lead to the birth of another infant with better prospects of a happy life, the total account of happiness will be greater if the disabled infant is killed. The loss of happy life for the first infant is outweighed by the gain of a happier life for the second. Therefore if killing the haemophiliac infant has no adverse impact on others, it would…be right to kill him.”

Infuriating and sad. Mostly sad.

It’s not the fact that this couple went to extraordinary lengths to have a hemophilia-free child, Allison and I had similar discussions before choosing to have another child and leave it up to God. But by pursuing this litigation this couple is demonstrating a clear resentment and disdain for the life of their son Jess. A life and condition shared by my son.

Like all children our boys with hemophilia are gifts. Gifts to be cherished and nurtured and loved. Each one with unique talents and abilities, needs and wants. They are undeniable gifts and constant sources of joy.

Jess is three now. And I hope his parents know, and he knows, that he is a gift and a joy.

Patrick Brogan

I blog at http://redbleed.blogspot.com/

 

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Sunday, March 23, 2008

Happy Easter to All!



Please visit us on Tuesday for our regular blog.




(Photo: Catholic Communications)

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At 9:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

May God give you all the colors of life,
colors of joy, colors of happiness, colors of friendship,
colors of love and all other colors you want to paint in your life.
Happy Holi.


Dharmendra Kumar
Hemophilia Society Ranchi
India

 
At 9:45 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

It gives me immense joy to think of you at this time, wish you a very happy Easter and thank you for being a part of my life and the life of the hundreds of Romanian patients. Your support, appreciation of our work and your being there for us means a lot for me, our hospital and patients. May you be blessed with happiness, success and good health.

My team of doctors and our patient community joins me in sending our best wishes for a happy Easter.

Kind regards,

Margit Serban
Romania

 
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At 8:03 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear friends,

St. Petersburg Hemophilia Society wishes you Happy Easter!

Sincerely,

Dmitry Chistyakov
Общество Больных Гемофилией
Санкт-Петербурга

 

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Sunday, March 16, 2008

The Most Famous Celebrity with Hemophilia


I have my friend and colleague Richard Atwood of North Carolina to thank for this entry, and my editor Sara Evangelos for editing this. I enjoyed it so much I had to use it tonight. This is taken from Richard's review of two books, listed below, and it will also appear in PEN in May. I wonder how many in our community knew of this?

The lives of Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton intersected with volatile chemistry, and a small part of that mixture involved hemophilia. Yet the role of hemophilia in their celebrity relationship is difficult to uncover, and was possibly meant to remain hidden from their public presence.

Elizabeth Rosemond Taylor was born in 1932 in London, England, and Richard Burton (Richard Walker Jenkins) in 1925 in Pontrhydyfen, Wales. They both began acting careers, and their personal relationship developed while filming the movie Cleopatra in 1962; the love affair between Antony and Cleopatra seemed to transpose into the torrid affair and two stormy, highly public marriages of Richard and Elizabeth.

In Elizabeth, it is revealed that in n May 1964, Richard was upset after being booed as the lead in Hamlet on Broadway. He began drinking heavily and then argued with Elizabeth, who was watching a Peter Sellers movie on television. During their argument, Richard kicked the television screen with his bare foot and cut a toe to the bone. The blood flow wouldn't stop for an hour. At the hospital, Richard received a dozen stitches. There, Elizabeth discovered that Richard suffered from mild hemophilia, a condition he had known about since childhood, as four of the Jenkins brothers had "the disease of kings."

As a precaution, Richard began using an electric razor to avoid nicks while shaving, and Elizabeth ensured that a supply of vitamin K was available for his hemophilia. When Elizabeth learned that there were "more than a hundred thousand sufferers in the United States alone," she and Richard contacted the National Hemophilia Foundation for ways to raise funds for public awareness. In June 1964 the couple established the Richard Burton Haemophilia Fund, with Elizabeth as chair. For raising hundreds of thousands of dollars, the fund was recognized in the June 17, 1964, issue of the United States House of Representatives Congressional Record, and in the June 27, 1964, issue of the British Medical Journal.1

Richard Burton: A Life is a an in-depth biography, and yet hemophilia is mentioned only once and the Richard Burton Haemophilia Fund is not mentioned at all. Elizabeth contains a short section titled "Richard's Hemophilia." The index includes two listings for hemophilia, under "Charities and Causes" and Richard Burton; but there is no listing for the Richard Burton Haemophilia Fund, although NHF is listed.

Richard Burton had more pressing medical problems than his hemophilia. Drinking and smoking adversely affected his liver and lungs, and he also suffered from epilepsy and acne. He blamed his arthritis on neck and back injuries from playing rugby as a youth, and on the "weak Jenkins bones." Richard's hemophilia didn't prevent him from fighting, and was only mentioned in the book because of the 1964 bleeding incident. For some reason, perhaps the for fear of being stigmatized, the role of hemophilia in Richard Burton's life never reached center stage.

Source:
Richard Burton: A Life
Melvyn Bragg, 1988. New York, NY: Warner Books. 643 pages.

Elizabeth
Randy Taraborrelli, 2006. New York, NY: Warner Books. 671 pages.

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At 5:52 AM, OpenID blood4 said...

I didn´t know!!! interesting, very interesting.
it proves that working out our personality is so much important...more sometimes that focusing only on "hemophilia".
big hug
frederica

 

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Monday, March 10, 2008

Brainstorming in Naples


I spent this weekend in beautiful Naples, Florida, attending a Bayer Multidisciplinary Board meeting. This is a fascinating chance to brainstorm on concerns within the community with some talented and diverse people, to discuss current insurance trends, and hear about new ideas on treatment coming from a manufacturer.

One the most interesting segments was listening to Dr. Glenn Pierce, VP Clinical Studies at Bayer, and former NHF president, share progress on Bayer's longer lasting formulation for Kogenate FS. While we wait for a cure, which could take years, longer lasting factor could be the next great thing for our treatment. Imagine prohylaxis that only requires one shot a week, but is as effective as three shots a week.

As always, I am humbled by how fortunate we are to have in our community so many dedicated to our welfare, and who joined us this weekend, such as Dr. Craig Kessler, currently chair of MASAC, Dr. Prasad Mathew, Regina Butler, RN, and Mike Rosenthal, formerly of the Hemophilia Association (Arizona). And as consumers we are grateful to be included in these round table, informal gatherings. This weekend I was able to see my buddy Rich Pezzillo, friend Kyle Callahan (former president of HHS), and fellow mother Shari Bender, whose husband Steve sits on the NHF board.

Whiel I cannot share the topics we discussed, I can say that these opportuities are golden to learn and to give feedback. If anyone is offered the chance to serve on any manufacturer, HTC or homecare advisory board, I strongly encourage them to participate. Thanks to Bayer for providing us all this wonderful opportunity to serve! (Photos: Rich Pezzillo and MIke Rosenthal; Craig Kessler with Shari Bender and Laurie Kelley)

Great Book I Just Read: The Truth About the Drug Companies by Dr. Marcia Angell. You may think this is a strange juxtaposition, after I just attended a drug company sponsored meeting, but I am researching an article on marketing by the pharmaceutical companies. Angell, former editor of the prestigious New England Journal of Medicine, has an axe to grind for sure, but reports on the behind the scenes maneuvers by "big pharma" as it attempts to weild influence over both consumers and law makers. While this is mostly about pharmaceuticals (pills) and not biologics (typically injectibles, like factor) it nonetheless will open your eyes and make you more critical when you order or purchase any pharmaceutical product-- and critical when you meet with your physician. Angell describes practices such as how the drug companies influence physicians to prescribe their products through gifts, junkets and marketing programs. Most interesting is her claim that the cost of marketing is much greater than the cost of R&D. It's well known that the drug industry is America's most profitable, and she discusses some of the reasons why this is so, and perhaps why it should not be so. Not totally applicable to the factor industry, but it is excellent food for thought. Three/four stars.

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At 12:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi Laurie! i have just tried to send you my "book" comment but something happened in the way and puff...I have to persevere and write again! :) i loved your posts on your different trips, your experience as a traveller who shares love and knowledge to all people and families with hemophilia...you are an inspiration for all of us :) As for the movies (i love movies) i will try to see it and then tell you. Yesterday I saw with my girls, "The Last King of Scotland." Amin Dada's terrible wound was not to have accepted and loved his black identity. He spit on his own; the methods he used were not of true Ugandans but of someone who out of context attacks his own Self. Nothing worse than wanting to be someone we are not. Bloody movie. See you--hug. PS: by the way did you know that octopus in Japanese is ...ika?! :) Ica

 

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Sunday, March 02, 2008

Those Very Special Inhibitor Families


Inhibitor families are a special lot and my admiration for them just continues to grow. For the past six months I've been interviewing parents and patients for my new book on inhibitors and I have learned what amazing hardships they face, and with such courage. Though I helped facilitate the Novo Nordisk Consumer Council for the past two years, I still didn't have a full appreciation of their lives. This past week in New York City we inaugurated a new group of parents and patients for the Consumer Council, and I feel better able to represent their needs by knowing more about the medical care, parenting concerns and social issues they face.

We had a wonderful time on Friday. Meeting at the Westin Hotel Times Square for a full day, the marketing team at Novo Nordisk and I presented questions and listened to nine consumers share their experiences, thoughts, suggestions and concerns. None of them had ever met one another, as inhibitor patients are pretty rare and in a country as big as the US, it is hard for them to meet. The Novo Nordisk Inhibitor Summits brought inhibitor patients together for the first time two years ago, and yes--for all who are reading this--there are going to be two more this year.

We had breakout groups, exercises and ice breakers. One ice breaker--meant to help us get to know one another--asked each participant to identify themselves with an animal. Everyone chose different animals, from a kangaroo to a dog to a lion. But Schlander chose an ant--unusual because almost no one in these types of exercises ever chooses an insect. Why an ant? Because though small, they are strong in groups and can accomplish something that seems impossible, given their size. Given that this group will be together for two years, it was a perfect animal to choose to highlight what a small team of dedicated people might and will accomplish.



Great Book I Just Read: Blood, by Douglas Starr. Four stars! This book took me a while but it was well worth it. Fantastic overview of the history of blood. It starts with the story of a madman running naked through the streets of Paris... reads like a novel but is packed with information about the meaning of blood in society, medicine and business. Learn about its incredible importance during World War II, and how much we advanced our knowledge of blood because of the war. Fully half of the book is devoted to the hemophilia holocaust, and I read with sadness and pride about our community, and its fight to bring safer measures of blood treatment and justice to the victims. It was startling and impressive to read about the leadership and courage of people like Bruce Evatt of the CDC, and Corey Dubin and Dana Kuhn of COTT, true heroes in our midst even today. I had read the history of the HIV infection before, and even watched the HBO movie about it, and still see Corey and Dana at events. But.. time goes on, and being human, we all tend to forget the past. This book reminded me of how privileged we are to have these warriors; how lucky my son and anyone born after 1985 are because they benefited from their perseverance to get a settlement from the government and drug companies, and have safer measures. And they still persevere in protecting our blood supply even today. Blood is required reading for anyone involved in the hemophilia community on any level.

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At 12:21 PM, OpenID blood4 said...

A very good project of gathering the parents of families with inhibitor reality... indeed it is like a whole new approach to hemophilia and its difficulties regarding treatment issues.
As for the book of Starr, it is a " must" for all people interested in life!
have a nice week
frederica

 

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