Laurie Kelley

Remembering Legendary Leaders

It’s been a sad couple of years, made sadder today by blogging at the first of the new year about the loss of two incredible leaders in our global hemophilia community, one in the US and one in Pakistan, gone in as many weeks. I’ll write tonight about the loss of Val Bias, the first leader in the hemophilia community I ever met, who made a lasting impression on me.

Val Bias and Laurie Kelley at an NHF Annual Meeting

Val Bias was an icon in the US hemophilia community, an unmistakable presence with his dazzling smile and hearty laugh, who possessed charm but purpose, intelligence but an everyman, relaxed posture, a polished speaker who could also sit back and listen deeply. His goal was ultimately to channel his own pain and suffering, of which there was much, into something for the greater good. He was relentless, and successful, in that goal.

I first met Val during my first National Hemophilia Meeting in 1992. I was the mother of a 5-year-old with hemophilia who had just written my first book, Raising a Child with Hemophilia. I knew about HIV and vaguely what was happening to our community, but … not really. Wrapped up in my own non-HIV world, trying to figure out my place in the community, I watched with horror as a room full of patients, parents and advocates began to rip one another apart over what was happening in the community. People were furious at NHF for their lack of leadership, for advising patients to keep taking their medicine. A patient-led group had formed and stood up, shouting and threatening. Suddenly, one clear, commanding voice boomed: “Everyone, sit down and calm down.” I looked around to see who had this voice, this presence, this leadership. It was a handsome man on the podium, who seemed to be the only one with a rational expression and the only one not afraid. Val Bias.

Val and Laurie in 1998

He was famous already in the community for being executive director of the Hemophilia Council of California, a lobbyist for NHF in Washington DC, and president of the board of the Hemophilia Foundation of Northern California. He was an active camp counselor, mentoring the boys with hemophilia. What amazed me most about him was his role in helping get the Ricky Ray Hemophilia Relief Fund Act of 1998 passed. This act allowed monetary compensation for those infected with HIV who have hemophilia.

Later, Val became the first African-American leader of NHF and one of the first patients to become a leader in NHF. His presence was galvanizing and he made impactful structural changes, which required great risks.

The tributes and condolences are pouring in on Facebook but this one, from our mutual friend and colleague, Dana Kuhn, a particularly close friend of Val’s, hit me the most:

“The pandemic of HIV called for a change in narrative of the national organization [NHF]. [A] group of 5 men realized it was their responsibility to teach men with HIV how to protect women from HIV infection and empower men to educate others to become leaders in their communities. These 5 men convinced NHF to create the Men’s Advocacy Network of the NHF (MANN) which brought altering changes to NHF. The change was strategically training and placing men with hemophilia in places of leadership. As a result, Val became chairman of the Board of Directors of the NHF, and Glenn Pierce became president of NHF. Many of us became directors on the NHF Board. Under new leadership the organization began to work through the decisions and responsibilities of the HIV pandemic in the hemophilia community. With the leadership of Val Bias, positive change was made. The community was unified to work on the Ricky Ray Hemophilia Relief Fund Act of 1995. New, improved and safer hemophilia products were coaxed into coming to market. The safety of the Nation’s blood supply became a priority especially through blood/plasma collection processes. Government agencies and Cabinet level committees accepted hemophilia consumer members to these positions turning a listening ear to their concerns and perspectives. NHF created initiatives under Val Bias and Donald Colburn challenging the raising of funds for research in gene therapy for a CURE. Under Val’s leadership ‘Chapter Development’ was made a priority and programs were implemented. Chapters became stronger and more universally developed. I could go on with much more.

Val with Chris and Jess Bombardier, and Laurie Kelley, in 2019, recognizing Save One Life; the last time they would see Val.

“However, how can I impress upon the bleeding disorders community the passion and compassion this leader had for his community and the awesome change he facilitated coming out of NHF’s challenges with the HIV pandemic. We need to honor this leader and the work he accomplished to help make this community better. The NHF Board and leadership, the Chapters, Youth Leadership Programs, Cure for the Disease programs, educational programs, relationships with donors would not be where they are today without his leadership.”

One of the hallmarks of a true leader is not what position they held, or how many accolades they receive, but what legacy they leave behind. Val was a transformational leader who changed our world, for the better. RIP Val; your work is done. Let those you mentored carry it forward.

Learn more about Val Bias in the movie “Bad Blood,” available on most streaming platforms.

Learn more about Val’s contributions in this article in HemAware.

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas and happy and safe holidays! See you in the new year!

God Bless Us Everyone… with Hemophilia

Doug and I saw a local live performance Friday night of Charles Dickens’ “A Christmas Carol.” It was wonderful! A classic story about a greedy old man who spends his whole life counting his money, living frugally and sharing his wealth with no one. The story is about his visit Christmas Eve by three ghosts: The Ghost of Christmas Past, Christmas Present and Christmas Future. Really four, if you include the ghost of Jacob Marley, his business partner in life, who first comes to warn him of the coming apparitions.

The ghost of Jacob Marley warns his former partner Ebenezar Scrooge that unless he changes his greedy, callous ways, he also will carry with him the chains he forged in life, for all eternity.

It’s a brillant story, and a metaphor for life. What is most important? Who do we most care about, and why? What will be our legacy when we die?

In the story, the Ghost of Christmas Present takes Scrooge to the house of his employee, the long-suffering Bob Cratchit, who has a son with a mysterious illness. The illness is never disclosed, but we see its symptoms: a crutch, crippling, limping, pain. And when shown the future, little “Tiny Tim” does not survive.

Every time I watch this now, I wonder: could Tiny Tim have had hemophilia?

It’s not far-fetched. In 1859, Tiny Tim inhabited London when Queen Victoria’s son Leopold did (born in 1853), and he had hemophilia. But Tim’s condition was never disclosed. He didn’t have a cough (denoting tuberculosis, common at the time), or any other pain.

I’m going to imagine he did have it; and thanks to Scrooge’s transformation to a benefactor, Tim got medical care, nutrition, support and grew up. Of course, they did not have commercial factor. But even Leopold lived to his early 30s without it.

Tiny Tim narrates the story of A Christmas Carol at the North Shore Music Theater in Beverly, Massachusetts

To those with hemophilia then and now, in the words of Tiny Tim, “God bless us, every one!” And happy holidays!

A Christmas Carol has never been out of print, and is one of the most enduring, powerful stories in English literature.

Texts That Protect

If something big were happening, you’d want to know about it right away, especially if it concerned the factor you or your loved one uses. The Patient Notification System (PNS) is a free service that will notify you about any withdrawals, recalls or warnings concerning your specific product, and even ancillaries. Are you signed up with it?

Launched in 1998 by the Plasma Protein Therapeutics Association (PPTA), a group that is supported by manufacturers of plasma-based products and recombinant products, this system has diligently sent out hard copy, telephone and email notices of any changes in your prescription drugs.

There was a time in the early 2000s when these were frequent, as there were shortages, plant shut-downs, recalls, products taken off line, and more. You can imagine that the specter of the mass HIV infections in the blood supply in the 1980s led to this unique and vital service.

There’s good news now: stringent manufacturing practices, better donor screening and genetically-engineered products means that notices of safety concerns are almost a thing of the past.

Are you signed up? You should be. It’s free, confidential, and now fast! Just recently, the PNS added notifications by text, probably the fastest route these days.  You will want to be up to date on any changes in the product you use.

Sign up for the PNS at www.patientnotificationsystem.org or call 888-UPDATE-U.

Thanksgiving in Nepal

In America, we celebrate Thanksgiving in remembrance of how the native Americans assisted the struggling Pilgrims in New England. Right here in my native Massachusetts, in 1621, the Plymouth colonists and the Wampanoag Indians shared a harvest feast that is acknowledged as one of the first Thanksgiving celebrations in the colonies.

I’m not a foodie; farthest thing from it. And cooking? Forget it! My lack of cooking skills are becoming legendary. I like to celebrate Thanksgiving by also helping others in need. When I heard about a young man in need in Nepal, it was a chance to make Thanksgiving for him.

Meet Mohan Bhujel, who has hemophilia A. He’s a 28-year-old who lives in one of the remote villages of Sindhupalchowk, Nepal. In 2016 he was diagnosed with an inhibitor; this is almost like a death sentence in developing countries. Mohan’s condition turned deadly serious one day when an internal bleed in his stomach gradually spread into his right thigh and knee joint. Despite several attempts by doctors from several hospitals inside the Kathmandu valley, his bleeding could not be controlled. After multiple failed attempts,  Mohan was referred to the Christian Medical College (CMC) in Vellore, India; a place where miracles happen. There, doctors decided to amputate his right leg, which had turned gangrenous. He had to stay there for 18 months to recover completely.

Since his surgery, Mohan has had to use a wheelchair to carry out his daily work and activities. To add to his distress and challenges, the devastating earthquake of 2015 destroyed his house completely. Since the government assistance rebuilding the destroyed houses has been terribly inefficient, Mohan and his wife and a little son have had to live with his brother’s family. Unfortunately, he has had to also be the only provider for his family, despite his condition.

How could he get work with only one leg and being limited to a wheelchair? How could he support his family? When the Nepal Hemophilia Society asked us to consider buying a prosthetic leg for this young man, we didn’t hesitate. He now has a fantastic leg, and is mobile, happy, and ready to return to work!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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